Yes I Sew No I Won’t Hem Your Pants Shirt
As a skilled seamstress, I often get asked to do favors for friends and acquaintances. One request that comes up time and time again is hemming pants. I understand that hemming pants can be a daunting task for those who aren’t familiar with sewing, but it can also be time-consuming and frustrating for those who do know how to sew.
To make my stance clear on this issue, I had a shirt made with the phrase “Yes I sew, no I won’t hem your pants” printed on it. It’s a playful way to let people know that I’m happy to help with certain projects, but hemming pants isn’t one of them.
It’s not that I don’t want to help, but hemming pants is a task that requires precision and attention to detail. It’s not something that can be done quickly or without care. And, as a professional seamstress, I have a responsibility to maintain the quality of my work.

I also don’t want to set a precedent that I’m available to do everyone’s alterations. It’s a slippery slope, and before I know it, I could be inundated with requests that I don’t have the time or energy to take on.
By wearing my “Yes I sew, no I won’t hem your pants” shirt, I hope to communicate my boundaries and expectations clearly. It’s not about being rude or unhelpful; it’s about being respectful of my time and skills.
Of course, there are exceptions to every rule. If a close friend or family member needed help hemming their pants for a special occasion, I would be happy to assist. But for the most part, I’ll stick to sewing projects that I find fulfilling and challenging.
In the end, my “Yes I sew, no I won’t hem your pants” shirt serves as a reminder to myself and others that it’s okay to say no and set boundaries. It’s a simple but powerful way to communicate my values and priorities.